b
$\frac{{(\overrightarrow b \cdot \overrightarrow a )\overrightarrow a }}{{|\overrightarrow a {|^2}}} = \frac{4}{3}(\widehat {\rm{i}} - \widehat {\rm{j}} - \widehat {\rm{k}})$
$ \Rightarrow \frac{{\{ (\lambda \widehat i - 3\widehat j + \widehat k) \cdot (\widehat i - \widehat j - \widehat k)\} (\widehat i - \widehat j - \widehat k)}}{{(1 + 1 + 1)}}$
$=\frac{4}{3}(\hat{i}-\hat{j}-\hat{k})$
$\Rightarrow(\lambda+3-1)(\hat{i}-\hat{j}-\hat{k})=4(\hat{i}-\hat{j}-\hat{k})$
$\Rightarrow(\lambda+2)(\hat{i}-\hat{j}-\hat{k})=4(\hat{i}-\hat{j}-\hat{k})$
On equating the coefficient of $\widehat i$, we get
$\lambda+2=4 \Rightarrow \lambda=2$