Question 15 Marks
Sibling Rivalry- Is it a problem in every family? [Points: Competition among brothers and sister - healthy to an extent - unhealthy if it takes a violent turn - role of parents role of family members - mass media can help]
Answer
View full question & answer→Sibling rivalry means a kind of a competition existing among children of the same family. If it leads to their growth and all-round development we can call it a healthy rivalry. However, sometimes it leads to breakups in families and creates distance between the members.
Sibling rivalry usually arises due to the overprotective attitude of the parents towards a child, a gender bias or giving a child more importance than the others. Sometimes it leads to unhealthy competition among the children and becomes the onset of an unhealthy rivalry. Usually, the firstborn finds it difficult to accept that somebody else will share the affection of the family. Parents have to play an important role in bringing the siblings together and learning the art of living. They too must stop paying more attention to a particular child and treat all of them equally. Fostering family bonds and increasing family activities where everyone participates is the best way to nullify any sibling rivalry that crops up.
The mass media should have constructive talks, dramas and soaps on TV to make people aware about the problem and delicately treat it with caution. If professional help is required it should be used subtly to nip the problem in a bud before it takes a serious turn.
Sibling rivalry usually arises due to the overprotective attitude of the parents towards a child, a gender bias or giving a child more importance than the others. Sometimes it leads to unhealthy competition among the children and becomes the onset of an unhealthy rivalry. Usually, the firstborn finds it difficult to accept that somebody else will share the affection of the family. Parents have to play an important role in bringing the siblings together and learning the art of living. They too must stop paying more attention to a particular child and treat all of them equally. Fostering family bonds and increasing family activities where everyone participates is the best way to nullify any sibling rivalry that crops up.
The mass media should have constructive talks, dramas and soaps on TV to make people aware about the problem and delicately treat it with caution. If professional help is required it should be used subtly to nip the problem in a bud before it takes a serious turn.